Five reasons not to fall in love

 I am an undergraduate student.I have experience with somethings in my life.I thought  I'd talk about one of those experiences.

Love.It's not a forbidden word.It's something we can talk about openly.This is not about mother's love.This is about the love of youth.

I have five reasons not to fall in love...

                The very first point is Freedom.

The beggining of the love of this generation is to cut off the wings.

          - Can't wear a dress you like

          - Can't associate with anyone you like

          - Have to only do what he/she says

          - Always looking with suspicion

So why fall in love like this?I don't agree with these things.Freedom is important.Be you!

           Second one is Comfort.

A week after the relationship started , there are fights.So where is the comfort?Fighting for the little things.Where there is no understanding there is always fighting.Some of them , don't respect the other person.Always try to respect your partner.There will be comfort.

        Third one is Trust.

The most important thing is this.This determins the relationship as well as feelings.There are few young people today who can be trusted.It's very difficult to repair if trust is damaged.So always have to be carefull.

          The fourth one is Decreased care and attention over time.

It hurts :( Some people change.But sometimes they missed their partner because of their's works.But , if the need is real , the reasons are unnecessary.

         Last one is Comparing with another person.

Not everyone is the same.When one gets rich , another gets poor.Also not everyone have same emotions.So it's wrong to compare one person with another.

 Don't get these things wrong.Keep these points in mind.Choose a love that can be comforting.See everything good.Be the kind of person the other person wants to be.

Rain of memories

Flower frost falling 

In a dark haze

The lake's water was shrinking

"Robarosiya" have fallen and

Lake road is deserted

The flowering trees withered

In the cold rain mist 

All that can be heard is,

the sound of rain

My heart burns

When that feeling is felt

I am sitting alone in the dark

With embraced a bunch of memories

Say it right now

Can rain make so stir our memories?

How to pickup when the dew falls?

My heart will melt

If it gets wet in the rain

Then as now

It's raining

Then as now

It's raining

Tell me now

Where did the dew get so much feelings?

Enough to give in bundles

My annoying friend

 A friend is someone who can say everything.There must be such a friend in life.Not everyone finds a friend who can share our sorrows , laugh at their joys and help them to improve.We need to protect such friends.I am going to tell you about that friend.

                  I have an annoying friend.Her name is Sithumini.We call her "Siththa".She is not someone who understands anything at once😒.That's the trouble.She gets an upset mood quickly.Sometimes I'm busy but I don't forget to reply her messages because she is a good friend of mine.I can make her angry quickly and also I can laugh😆.She is very simple.She always likes to wear frocks.She is good at that dress.

                  She is very kind and friendly but sometimes she looks like a baby.She is very funny.She can sing well.I am a fan of her.She thinks she's a great nuisence for me.I know she is looking at this blog.I hope she understands after reading this , to me she is not a nuisence.

                  How ever she is a goooood friend I met.This friendship will last forever.

-Stay with me in everyday

Let's move forward together-

Let's see the beauty of Kurunegala District?

 My home town is Kurunegala.It's not so developed , not so famous city in the past.Today , it has become a city with all the facilities.There are lot of  hidden beautiful places in our district.

                            Lake round is the one of my favourite places.It's a place of high environmental beauty.Also a soothing place and a good place to clear our mind.It's a great place for jogging,boating & tasting.A place where I spend a lot of time on the weekends.

The other place I like is Athugala.I went there with my friends.You have to go up through the jungle.That road is very beautiful and fresh because of the green trees.When we go up , we can see the whole city.A lot of people come to see this place.Athugala is beautiful for night.There is also a huge Buddha prathima which can be worshiped.Anyone who comes here will never forget to come back.

Another place I visited was Dolukanda.This mountain is located a little away from the city.There is no way to go up in vehicles like Athugala.In fact this is a camping site.Even if you spend the night, there is no danger.When you enter the jungle , you will find lakes and small waterfalls.Except for the sound of water flowing in the waterfalls , you can only hear the birds chirping.This is a place full of nature beauty.This mountain is very huge.When you go up, you can't see the bottom.Only trees and Dolukanda lake can be seen.The morning view is very beautiful.

Next I went to Deduru Oya reservoir.You may think there is nothing to see in a reservoir.But this place is clean and tidy.The way is a bit narrow.During the rainy season , a lot of water fills up.During that season it overflows about 6 feet.When it's not raining , we can go downstairs and take a shower.We can sit and enjoy the view while eating chips.I ate about five chips😁

There are so many places I haven't mentioned.The temple Maraluwawa , Arankale , Paduwasnuwara , Yapahuwa , Kuweni Rock and Wellegala.These places are full of nature beauty.I shared my experiences with you and you must come too.Enjoy:)

Birthday gift

 18 th of  December 2020.It was my birthday.I received a beautiful gift.I really like that gift because that gift was given to me by someone I loved the most.It's a hand craft.It seems to have worked very hard to fix it.I was very surprised when I got my hands on it.It's hard to imagine it being handmade.Thing like cardboard,sponges,flowers and wrapping papers are used to make this.There was something more beautiful inside it.It's a book made from my collection of photos.There were photos in that craft that I didn't even have.It was made very creatively.There are no words to explain the joy I felt when I picked it up.This is the first time I have received a gift like this.So that's why I'm so happy.It's now on my study table.It is very precious gift to me. 

Let's enjoy the day

 Recently it has become a habit to get up at 7 am in the morning.Getting up in the morning is really refreshing.I like to drink a glass of water and start the day.It's healthy.At the same time the day becomes beautiful when you enjoy the environment with the sun shine at about 7 am in the morning.Only somone who wants to enjoy the environment,know this feeling.Then I have to attend the university lectures.I know you have as well as I do.It's a little bit boring because they run online.But if you start works with a good mind you will not be lazy.Lot's of assignments.Need to set aside time for that too.There is no time to spend with mom and my loved ones because of works.But when I am free I spend time with'em.Specially don't forget to spend the day with your loved ones.

-My home garden-

 I am really in to reading books in my leisure time.I don't forget to read at least five pages a day.When I read books,I feel wonderful relief.I like to live in it and imagine them.Because of that desire I would like to set up a home library.I always think it will work out somehow.Chase your dreams everyday.So lectures end at about 4 pm.It's hard to look at the lap full day.At that time I like to look at the green color environment.Then the mind and body will be refreshed.After that I finish my day's works and start studying.There are also sleepy days.At that time I go to bed.It's your own choice.Don't be so serious.Life should be taken relax.Always stand with a positive mind.If you get up in the morning and focus on something fresh for the day ,it gives you a calm mind.If you woke up at 10 am in the morning you couldn't spend the day like this.Do something that makes you happy, no matter how busy you are... 

(I wrote this with my experience)
     

The ghost I saw

 The time is exactly 11.59 pm;

I was studying and I had to go to the kitchen to drink water.But, a little question; I was scared to go alone now because I watched horror movie the day before.In that movie,there was an incident where a girl who went to the kitchen to drink water sees a ghost.I lost my thirsty.I went to the kitchen with a strong mind.I looked around with a little scared.Thank god there wasn't a problem.I took the water glass and drank it.Just as I was about to enter the room,I saw someone walking behind me.I felt like putting me off."I am a strong girl" I thought.But the same thing happened to the girl in the story."I swear I never watch horror movies again"I thought.

                   I 've heard that if a ghost comes from behind ,you have to look under the arm.Because they squeeze the neck if you look straight ahead.I'm still there.He's not going either.I can't run.Slowly I rised my hand and looked under the arm.OMG  It's door cloth....I came in to the room blaming myself.But when I came in to the room I remembered that there was no door cloth on the kitchen door.My goodnesss I started screaming and crying."Moom..Mooom..." I got a good beating.Yes it's about 7 o'clock in the morning.It was a dream...     

Mom's beauty

 Mom

You are a moon yes ; you are a moon

A sleepless eye for a long night

No end in sight today 

The whole world will light up tomorrow

You are a flower yes ; you are a flower

Without bringing grief to the mind 

Once seen the mind will quenched

Defeats a beautiful girl 

You are a river yes ; you are a river 

A place where no gaps are invisible 

No end in sight and no fatigue

But ; it will flow like this tomorrow

What does the moon ask for ?

Be a light and stay close

What does the flower ask for?

Smell and soothe the mind

What does the river ask for?

keep flowing despite obstacles

What do you ask for ?

Give love and pleasure

Moon is even more beautiful ,

When there are stars

Flower is even more beautiful ,

When it smells and blooms

River is even more beautiful ,

When it flows with obstacles

MOM ; you are even more beautiful ,

When you smile 💓